# AI attitudes are becoming a dealbreaker in San Francisco dating

> Original title: AI is the new dating dealbreaker

- Source: The Verge · AI
- Published: 2026-11-06T17:00:00.000Z
- Bad Influence: https://badinfluence.news/items/hp1s7e6f5g57lsryedckn3ee9
- Original: https://www.theverge.com/ai-artificial-intelligence/1028609/ai-dating-feelings-doomers-singularity

## Summary

Dating profiles in San Francisco increasingly list views on AI as a dealbreaker, according to reporting from The Verge. Some users, such as Irene, have seen profiles say "You should not go out with me if… you use AI," while others weigh a partner's AI-industry job or pay. Kyle, an AI safety researcher, says he struggles to plan long-term relationships because he does not expect a long-term future.